It is not easy to know definitively whether your spouse is having an affair or conducting in inappropriate behavior that merits a divorce. Suspicions are not reason enough for a divorce, and that is why we recommend that you first turn to us at T.O.T. Private Consulting. We can investigate the matter, confirm or disprove your suspicions, and give you some peace of mind. We are the investigators that the Orthodox community turns to most.

Is your spouse cheating on you? How can you tell? There are several suspicious sings in your spouse’s behavior that should trigger your interest. Remember, suspicions should be checked and verified by a professional private investigator before confronting your spouse or consulting with a lawyer.

Here are some suspicious behavioral signs you might want to pay attention to:

1. Your spouse dutifully erases mobile phone logs. By him hiding the incoming/outgoing log in a mobile phone, this might indicate that your spouse is having conversations he does not want you to know about.
2. Frequent and unusual trips abroad. It is very hard to know what your spouse is doing while traveling, and in such instances you may need a private investigator to help you find out.
3. Many new friends are suddenly added to your spouse’s life.
4. Hiding his mobile phone bills and obsessively clinging to the phone.
5. Your spouse brings you presents without any particular reason, and this is not a usual occurrence,
6. Your spouse conducts phone conversation while sitting in the car, not using the house phone, in order to prevent you from listening.
7. Your spouse avoids spending personal time

Is your child not acting himself? Some signs of change:

1. Your childish behaving differently
2. Your child is coming home late
3. Your child has red eyes
4. Your child locking himself in his or her room
5. Suspicion of drugs or alcohol
6. Rebelling in school
7. Constantly lying
8. Being violent

Contact T.O.T. Private Consulting, the best Jewish Orthodox investigators in the NY area, and we can help reveal whether your suspicions have any true merit. By performing a thorough and discrete private investigation, you can discover whether your spouse is having an affair; and then make an informed decision on what course of action you wish to take.